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A path to peace after abortion

The Forgiveness Choice
A path to peace after abortion

Find resolution and move forward with your life.

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Clinical Psychologist
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A Guided Program to resolve Grief after an abortion

The experience of an abortion can result in a profound wave of grief, loss, and silent suffering.

For some people, this grief may start immediately following the abortion. For others, it could be days, weeks, months, years or even decades later. These unresolved emotions can become apparent later in life once you have had children, or when facing struggles with falling pregnant. Crucially, these unresolved feelings can also remain deeply embedded even if you have never tried to have a child or do not plan to have children.

Some people think they would never have an abortion, and when they do, it can result in a high level of internal shame and self-judgment. This can be very difficult to come to terms with, and you might feel like you just have to live with this pain. But the reality is that it can be processed and worked on. You can reach a place of resolution and move forward with your life.

This program is built on over 2 decades of clinical experience and integrates elements of Interpersonal Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, and Emotion-Focused Therapy. This structured program will focus on the unresolved feelings regardless of how long ago the abortion was.

What You Get

Everything You Need To Heal

8 Parts To Lift The Grief
A structured, step-by-step journey through every dimension of your grief — from understanding it to fully releasing it.
Over 2 Decades of Clinical Experience
Every exercise and technique is grounded in decades of clinical practice.
24/7 Access
No waitlists, no appointments. Work through your program from home, at your own pace, whenever you feel ready.
A Powerful Grief Framework
Guided by a proven clinical framework drawing on Interpersonal, Gestalt, and Emotion-Focused Therapy approaches.
Build Emotional Tools
Learn practical strategies to manage distress, ground yourself in difficult moments, and build lasting emotional resilience.
Complete Privacy & Comfort
Heal in the safety of your own home, on your own terms. You can do the deep work in your own space, allowing for the raw, honest expression that can be confronting to show in front of others.

The 8-Step Path to Resolution

01
The Roadmap
Realising why you feel this way is where your relief begins. You will understand why you feel the way you do.
02
The Foundations of Emotional Release
Before we begin the deep processing, we establish your internal safety. You will learn the exact clinical steps to safely access and release emotions. Rather than blocking or numbing your feelings, this phase provides the grounding and self-support protocols needed to process grief as it arises.
03
The Integration of the full experience of loss
You will place the events of the abortion and the days that followed and your current life into a processed timeline. Your mind will integrate these memories to stop the intrusive nature of the memories. You will finally process the events of the past so they no longer disrupt your present.
04
Reconstructing the Relationship
Using Interpersonal Therapy (IPT), we focus on the reality of the loss. You will process the relationship you will not have with the child. By making sense of it all you move the connection from unresolved feelings to integrated truth. You will place the abortion as a processed, understood part of your experience.
05
Expressing Feelings
Using Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) you release the feelings of anger, guilt and sadness to reclaim the immense energy it takes to hold onto these feelings.
06
Resolving the Inner Conflict
You will be guided using Gestalt Therapy to address all the unfinished business. You will have the space to resolve the internal conflict.
07
Meaning, Purpose, and Symbolic Release
Using Existential Therapy, we incorporate your learnings to define a meaningful life. We focus on your new purpose and explore the person you would like to become.
08
Creating Your Future
We set meaningful goals with a clear plan for your next chapter.

Start With the Full Journey —
or Begin One Step at a Time

Each part is also available individually — giving you the freedom to start when you feel most comfortable.

01
The Roadmap
02
The Foundations of Emotional Release
03
The Integration of the full experience of loss
04
Reconstructing the Relationship
05
Expressing Feelings
06
Resolving the Inner Conflict
07
Meaning, Purpose, and Symbolic Release
08
Creating Your Future
What Our Clients Say

Real people. Real grief. Real resolution.

I felt so guilty after the abortion. We wanted a third child and when I got pregnant I just could not do it. Reality of another baby hit home. I then felt bad karma would get me. I felt I killed this child. I am so shocked how the program got me to work on it all.

S.J. • England

After having an abortion, I felt so guilty. I was extremely depressed and did not want to look at myself. I was ashamed of myself. This program made me realize that I can forgive myself and allowed me to find peace. I no longer feel hurt and shame around the abortion.

E.B. • Australia

I tried everything after the abortion. I listened to podcasts on the area, read books, even tried therapy. What this program gave me was nothing like anything else. The way it is put together really targets the grief and allows you to look forward with renewed hope.

O.P. • Australia

This program is for anyone experiencing unresolved feelings after an abortion.

You may be experiencing numerous symptoms including but not limited to:

– Feeling pain and hurt
– Unresolved feelings after an abortion
– Internal shame or self-judgment
– Grief that has surfaced after having children or facing difficulty falling pregnant
– Feelings that have remained embedded despite not planning to have children
– Anger, sadness, guilt or regret relating to the experience
– A sense that you just have to live with this pain

You do not need to remain stuck in pain. Grief, when addressed directly, can be resolved. This program shows you how.

Edyta Stepien, Clinical Psychologist
Program Developer
Edyta Stepien
Clinical Psychologist with over 25 years of experience helping people transform their lives.

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